Setting limits and receiving are very scary. I guess i'm afraid of needing too much and then being rejected, judged or abandoned. Or maybe i'm just afraid of failure. Yet, i'm clearly knowing that failure is essential to success in any endeavor. It tests us and allows us to grow.

Or maybe i'm afraid of not being supported, so i somehow unknowingly push away the supports i need. At times, i mistakenly assume that being tough and independent would definitely get all respect from people. And yes, the feeling of being rejected and unappreciated are especially painful, even in the smallest ways, as i hold the incorrect belief deep inside my unconscious.

Precisely there is nothing wrong with making mistakes. But there is something very wrong with making the same mistakes over and over again. I guess it's time for me to set about making immediate improvements in my life.

Cheers. ;)