Just recently I came back from Langkawi after a trip of 4 days 3 nights and been slacking at home. It was an awesome trip indeed but a reminder for myself: a week holiday of mine is ending very soon. Serious shit. I hate this feeling.
And hell, the bloody internet connection of my computer is fucked. Thus I'm now sitting in front of my neighbour's Mac and updating my blog.
Oh by the way, it's christmas today so I hereby wish all of you a merry xmas! ;)




Often when we look for answers, we automatically go where the light is better.
But sometimes we need to go where it's dark.






When I am in a dark tunnel, I want to be with people who love me enough to sit in the darkness with me and not stand outside telling me how to get out. I think that's what we all want.

Nobody else can look out for my best interest better than I can. Other people may not fully understand the choice I have to make. Or their advice may be colored with feelings of competition, jealousy, or their own personal feelings. I have to go with my gut and make the decision that is best for me.

Anticipating a terrible event is often worse than actually experiencing it. Yes, it's awful, but the human condition is that we return to baseline relatively quickly.
We are far more resilient than we realize.