When you feel the pain of loss, please don't grab at something to take away the pain. Just have faith that pain, like everything else, is transitional. Through it, you will learn about your ability to deal with adversity. You will learn about how you manage stress. You will feel pride. On the other side of the pain, you will learn something about who you are.

It's already year 2010 and I hope things will get even better from now on. Happy New Year and have an amazing year ahead!
Cheers!